Free sugar Baby dating websites

How to Find Your Own Sugar Daddy (Like I Did)

Istockphoto

It all started two years ago when my bulldog, Hemingway, got sick. After the $500 I’d dropped at the vet, I couldn’t even afford a cab home. And all the freelance work I could find wouldn’t come close to footing the impending bills. Huddled at the bus stop, Hemingway drooling on my knee, I Googled: “How to find a sugar daddy.”

But I’d always been curious. I imagined my life with a sugar daddy to look like a mash-up between an old black-and-white movie and a rap video — with ample time left over to write the Next Great American Something. There would be shopping in Milan, swimming in the Maldives, and gambling in Monaco. In other words, a fantasy complete with five-star pet care.

I created accounts on several websites. Every week or two, I would meet another potential sugar daddy. Six months and as many unpaid vet bills later, I found a nerdy-cute i-banker in his late thirties; Eli immediately took care of my debt and transferred Hemingway to the city’s best vet. Still, I took it slow. On our fifth date, he offered me $2, 500 a month so I could relax with my dog. That night, Eli got lucky, too.

Two months later, I had to put Hemingway down. In my depression, I buried myself in Eli’s bed, welcoming the high-thread-count comfort of his luxury loft. He soon convinced me to move in. This was how I inadvertently let him into the “boyfriend zone.” In turn, I got to shop more, join his fancy gym, and eat at fabulous restaurants nightly. Tropical vacations and designer lingerie are decadent, but the habitual treats — like organic groceries, a cleaning lady, and pedicures — are what had me hooked.

Eyebrows may raise, but I see no moral issue here. In fact, if there’s anything unbalanced about this equation, it’s in his favor. I give Eli what money is worthless without: friendship and fun. Plus great sex. That, by the way, is the easy part. It’s the emotional labor that’s challenging: I do all the grown-up relationship work, from planning our dates to downright mothering. If I don’t properly tend his every need, a tantrum erupts: “You ate all the Häagen-Dazs? You’re just using me! It’s over!” Ultimately, being paid to put up with these pathological antics is toxic.

I know I have to quit — but I dread the thought of reverting back to a bodega-based diet or, God forbid, drugstore makeup. Despite these fallbacks, many of my girlfriends — from the bossy professional to those of DIY anarchist persuasion — still ask for pointers on acquiring their own sugar daddy. Here’s what I tell them.

Dating Confidence Hypnosis CD - Imagine being super confident and able to hold interesting and enjoyable conversations with your potential love interest, your date will be drawn to you and want to be around you. Dating will never have been this much fun!
Music (Mark Bowden MSc BSc Dip Hyp)
  • 4 Audio Tracks
  • Highly effective day time and sleep recordings (see description)
  • Professionally recorded
You might also like:
Sugar Baby Schools WXTL-Tallahasse, FL
Sugar Baby Schools WXTL-Tallahasse, FL
Why Sugar Momma Seeking Sugar Baby
Why Sugar Momma Seeking Sugar Baby
Dating Confidence Hypnosis CD - Confidence is attractive, your date will be drawn to you and want to be around you. Dating will never have been this much fun!
Music (Mark Bowden MSc BSc Dip Hyp)
  • 4 Audio Tracks
  • Highly effective day time and sleep recordings (see description)
  • Professionally recorded
Free Top Best Sugar Daddy Dating Sites, Sugar Baby, Sugar
Free Top Best Sugar Daddy Dating Sites, Sugar Baby, Sugar ...
Guelph students among top users of "sugar baby" dating website
Guelph students among top users of "sugar baby" dating website
free sugar daddy websites
free sugar daddy websites
2015 Best Sugar Daddy & Baby Dating Websites Reviews
2015 Best Sugar Daddy & Baby Dating Websites Reviews
Related Posts